My Wife Cooks Food That I Don't Eat And She Gives It To My Children

 

Another true life story from my inbox, please read and drop your advised.

I've been married to my wife for 12 years now, and everything is fine, except that occasionally she cooks food that I don't like. When I was young, my father didn't like okra and obono soup, and my mom never made it in our home, even Pap, she doesn't cook it because my father never eats it.

I'm a picky eater like my dad. My wife knows that I don't like Okra Soup, but she will cook it and eat it with my children. Then she will make vegetable soup for me to eat. She will make garden eggs stew and eat it with yam, and will fry eggs for me to eat with my own yam. My children now eat all those things that I don't eat and even ask my wife to cook it for them.

In my own culture, what a man won't eat. The wife should not cook it, but my own wife will say she's not forcing me to eat it, and she's doing it for herself, but she's giving my children. I've told her, not to do it again but she wont listen. She's now disobedient and go against what I my will. Please help me. Hope I'm not overreacting.

Well you have to let her be as long as she is not forcing you to eat what you don't like. And please note that she was brought up differently and that she is not from your family