My Husband Sister is His Next Of King To All his Properties And This is Brothering Me

 

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My husband's sister is his nest of king, his work, document, his company, his properties and his house, all document is with his sister. Now, my husband's sister, is already married, and my husband loves her so much that he involves her in everything. Guess what? His sister decides everything for him. Whenever I discuss anything with my husband, he will tell me to discuss it with his sister first, before the decision withstand, I've been feeling uncomfortable over that. Why would my husband not have a say of his own? I complained about it to him, and he said, I can't change his bond with his sister. 

One morning, my husband woke me up and told me he wants us to relocate to the UK. I like the idea, and I told him I will love that. He said that he will have to discuss it with his sister. After one week, my husband told me that the sister is not okay with the idea so therefore we won't continue with any plan of traveling. I was so angry that day, I picked my phone to call my sister in law's husband. I told him to please advise his wife to allow my husband and I run our home the way we want. She should stop interfering. After the call, my sister in law called me. She told me that the next time I recall her husband, she will make sure I leave my husband's house. After that day, I became so uncomfortable. 

My husband traveled to India. He stayed here there for five months. Anytime I asked my husband for money to buy things for the house, he would tell me to call his sister. At first, I made up my mind never to call his sister again, but I noticed I have almost exhausted my own money. I had no choice but to call my sister in law. When I told her, my husband told me to call her for money. She's asked me what I needed the money for that I should write a list, attach the price and send to her. I sent her a list of 56k and she sent me 30k that I should manage it.

 Five days later, I got a call from my sister in law husband. He said he knows how I'm feeling, that that's the same way he's also feeling too. He said my sister in law does not respect him because she feels she's entitled to everything. My husband home, he told me that my sister in law is my husband's next of kin. She's with all documents, and she's using it to discredit him because her so called brother, which is my husband, is richer than Him. He said that my husband's father adopted my wife. They are not related by blood. Your husband wanted to marry her, but his father told him that he cannot do it. They were in love with each other, so he sees my wife as his wife, not just his sister. He said.

At this point, I don't know what to do. Should I leave the marriage or continue to be a nobody except a bed woman to my husband, I'm in pain. Please advise me, drop your comments for this lady. Thank you.

Have You talk to him about it? Sit him down and explain to him calmly that you guys needs to work together to make your home a prefect place for the both of you and that he should remember that his sister whom he was ones in love with is married and he needs to move on with his own personal desire that suit the family.