My story is a bit complicated. It all started when my sister came to my house when I was sick. I gave birth through CES so she came to help me out. Our mom and our youngest sister are late and she is the eldest among us so she came for motherly duty. To be frank, I was the one that asked her to come because I felt she is my family member and I could trust her with my life. After the Oumugbo, my sister traveled back home. Few months later, I heard she was pregnant. It was my dad that told me about it. When I asked her how come, she told me that it was complicated and that her boyfriend rejected the pregnancy. I felt pity for her. I was even willing to arrest the guy because how can you do this to my sister? I told my sister that we should arrest the guy but she said she can handle it, that she left everything for God. I told my husband about it. My husband was not really interested in the story.
He told me not to get involved since my sister said she can handle it. I was not happy that my sister was heartbroken. But all I could do was to support her emotionally, physically, and financially. Few months later, she put to birth, and I promised her that I would take care of her and her child. I asked her to come stay with me for some time, but she refused. She said she doesn't want to bother me and my husband. My sister later relocated to Lagos and said that she wanted to start a new life. She got to Lagos and was doing fine. She opened a shop too and I was sincerely happy for her.
After about one year plus, I told my sister to try to settle down. But she said she's not ready to settle down and that she still wants to get over her ex. My husband will always travel for business trips. I never bothered because he was a business man. So, see, I know I mentioned it, but why should he cheat with my own sister? One of the days my husband travelled, his friend mistakenly asked me if he has returned. I said no. In my mind I was like, Lagos how, He told me a Enugu. Well, I felt he made a mistake and I didn't really know about my husband's way about. I was close to my husband's friend's wife. She called me one day and said she wanted to talk to me about something. I went to her and she didn't even know how to start. I felt she was really disturbed about something, but really didn't know how to talk about it. So I thought she and her husband were having issues. This woman started talking and I almost slapped her for insinuating that my husband and my sister are having an affair.
She gave me some reasons to believe, but I refused to. When I got home, I decided to look into the matter, so I secretly started monitoring my husband. I purposely made him snap me pictures with his phone so I told him that I wanted to take the picture. He wasn't expecting it but I went straight to his whatsapp message. Lo and behold I saw transfer receipts of money my husband sent to my sister. 300k. I scrolled up and I saw the worst heartbreak of my life. My sister sent her child's picture to my husband and tagged it. See your baby, this child looks exactly like my husband
Ah, what the next thing that struck my mind was so my sister is my husband's side chick and baby mama God and she's pregnant Wow See, I don't want to recount everything I've done for my sister because if I begin to count I will cry myself out I confronted my husband immediately He was confused but which is said the whole thing to why I invaded his privacy My husband became so quiet that whole night. He was so uncomfortable
His friends started calling me probably he called them to beg me because I was just upset and I don't want to shout and I Didn't do anything. I couldn't sleep. I was crying all through the night I swear I am willing to send her pictures on social media so she can explain to the whole world what I did to deserve what she Did to me the next morning. I left the house went and lost somewhere to cool off my head. I called my dad and told him everything I saw in my husband's phone. And my dad was dumbfounded. Dad called my sister and she hung the phone. After that day, I haven't heard from her again. It's been four months though, and my husband has been begging me to forgive him.
I don't know where to start from. Everything is just complicated. My sister can't be reached. My dad is very angry at my husband and doesn't want to talk to him. And I'm willing to fight for a divorce
I am confused my husband's friends wife is ready to drag them online But I don't know if it's the right thing to do, my head is full. Please help Guys, please drop your advice in the comment section Guys.
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