My husband sent me his ex-girlfriend page and told me to go learn how to dress, talk and do other things.

Story time. My name is Jenny. I got married to my husband in November 2023.

We are just a 3 month old couple. I met him at the mall and we clicked. We dated for four months and he was so much interested in getting married asap. I was wondering if we've known ourselves so well to go into marriage. Two weeks after we met he started talking about marriage but I told him to give me time. Finally we got married. In December my husband suddenly said we have to relocate from Abuja to Asaba.

He said he wanted to start a new life with his wife and plan having kids. Three weeks later, my husband woke me up. He told me to go search for a name on IG. I searched and he identified it. He told me to follow the lady, study how she dresses, talk, walks and how she carries herself. I paused for a moment to ask myself what was wrong with my dress sense because for all I know I combine dress well, I combine colors and right from time people applaud and copy my dress sense. I didn't remember to ask him who the lady was. I thought she was just one of these influencers on social media because my husband is always on that page. 

The other day he slept off while on the ladies live broadcast. Like he's literally on that page every time even when we were dating so I ended up following the page for fun because I wanted to enjoy my marriage. It's too early to create problems where there's none. After one month I decided to spend my hours on that page. I went through all her posts from one after the other and I saw a post that was made in 2018. It was a picture of a man and a woman kissing. It was three pictures.

The first one, the guy's face was covered, and the second, the guy's face showed. The guy happened to be my husband. I pinched myself like, what am I missing? Luckily for me, one of the pictures she posted, I saw her with my friend's cousin,

so I immediately picked up my phone and called my friend. I told her to ask her cousin who this lady is and the person she snapped with. Yes, I sent her the picture. After 30 minutes, my friend forwarded voice notes from her cousin. According to her cousin, my husband was supposed to marry the lady because they dated for eight years and along the line, the lady got married in August 2023, which left my husband broken. She said that my husband was so much in love with the lady that he sent me to her page. But the lady's marriage ended in December, 2023 because her husband caught her with my husband making out in a hotel. So her marriage ended.

I then took my mind back to when my husband was in hurry to relocate from Abuja  to Asaba in December without planning. I was heartbroken. When my husband came back, I asked him who the lady he sent me to her page is. He said no one, just one of those hardworking social media ladies that he likes watching.

The last time, who is this lady? I asked with a loud voice. My husband noticed I've entered another room and he has not seen before. He kept quiet. What do you mean by this question, he asked. I showed him the picture he took with the lady. He was speechless. Tell me about her now, if you don't tell me, all I need to know, you won't like the outcome of this, I said.

In my husband's voice, "she is my ex-girlfriend. I got married to you so I can show her I've moved on. When she broke my heart, I married somebody else. But the truth is that I didn't move on. I am still in love with her. Everything in me still calls her name. I still want her in my life. Her marriage ended because of me in December. Please, I'm sorry," my husband said.

I sent you to her page so you can learn to be like her. I thought this would help me forget her, but I can't. I was even planning to tell you that I still want to get married to her. Anytime I want to raise the discussion, I feel pity for you, my husband continued.

Where is she right now, asked my husband. Just yesterday, I moved her down to Asaba. My husband answered, you rented a hotel or what? I asked. No, I rented a three bedroom apartment for her, my husband said. When he was done talking, I left. I went to the kitchen to cry myself out. What have I gotten myself into? I was  used to cure heartbreak. Why me? Next morning my husband told me he wants a divorce. Please this is where I need your advice.

Should I agree to this divorce? I love my husband. He is my first man. I gave him my virginity. Please what do I do? Please what do I do? Guys please drop your comments, your advice, your suggestions in the comment section please.