I have a girlfriend who I love so much, she loves me too. She's very calm, so beautiful like a goddess and intelligent, God-fearing, but the only problem is that she's very shy and can be easily manipulated by her friends and people. This is because she's just so kind to her fault and I tell her her stupidity and not being smart. And that scares the heck out of me. Whenever she goes out to the market, sellers do cheat her very easily because she's just too soft and her close friend also do take advantage of her weakness.
This breaks my heart. I love her so much because she's been everything a man would ever wish for but what scares me is the future. No one can pray for death but I feel in my absence any stranger can come and claim what rightfully belongs to my family because she's not strong enough to confront anyone and even find it difficult to express herself Whenever she's not comfortable with a particular situation Our relationship has lasted for 10 months now and I'm thinking of tying the knot but what scares me is her softness. Even when it comes to important things that should be fought for she easily decides to let go.
I've never and would never take advantage of her soft nature, but it really bothers me because others easily take advantage of her and get away with it unless I'm aware of the situation and this has made me constantly wanting to know everything she does. I'm a strong and confident man and I've always prayed to have a confident woman by my side but she's just the direct opposite of that. She has ticked all my boxes except for the fact that she's shy and not confident.
What do I do in this situation? What do I do in this situation? Guys, please drop your advice in the comment section.
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